Some Tips for Students Looking for Internships or Jobs

I have mentioned a few times that I participate in the recruiting event for my company, and I had just visited a local university few days ago. Desperate time makes desperate students (people) *sigh*

Look for job is definitely money-releated, so I am going to offer some tips for students. Assuming you have the skills and technical criteria, I offer the following tips on how you approach and talk with company recruiters, and in all practicality, the tips should be also useful in your day-to-day interaction with people in general.

Disclaimer: I am not a “professional” coach — meaning, I have no certificate — but I do have the perspective of a recruiter, having done it more than I can count with my two hands and talked to hundreds, if not thousand of students.

Here I go.

  1. Do not behave like a robot — You are not a piece of meat. The recruiter is not a piece of meat. No one is just a piece of meat. So don’t treat people like a piece of meat. Should not we treat all people courteously anyways? Examples such as…
    • Do not simply walk up to a recruiter and recite a planned speech or essay.
    • It follows that, greet the recruiter and do not ignore him or her when greeted with “How are you?” or similar questions. (That happened a lot.)
    • Similarly, it’s good if you have a plan, but if the recruiter behaves or responds “out of sync”, adapt.
  2. Slow down your speech — It is great that you are prepared. It is okay that you are nervous. But it is NOT okay that you speak so fast that the other person cannot understand you, or simply zone out because you “buffer overflow” his or her brain. Speak at a decent pace.
  3. Breathe — Yes, literally, you need to breathe. This goes hand in hand with your speech. First of all, without breathing, you die. Without enough air, your speech will suck, and then you will try to speak even faster. At which point, you will get even more nervous. Breathing also helps your body handle the adrenaline rush. So, breathe. Breathe between sentences. It is okay to have a moment of silence.
  4. Stand tall — This will enhance your presence and image of confidence. Do not mistake this with puffed chest. Personally, I believe this has a huge impact on our impression on people in general, consciously or subconsciously. Fix your posture. If you don’t know what a good posture mean, go study what yoga, martial art, or singing talks about in a good posture.
  5. A nice and firm handshake — Besides posture, handshake is another good sign of a person’s attitude and confidence. A nice firm handshake is one which two persons’ hands cross with the concave part between the thumb and the index finger followed by a quick but firm squeeze. Do NOT crush the person’s hand.
  6. Pass on your resume once introduced and greeted — At career fair. This one is common sense, right? Give recruiter the resume so he or she can take notes of you and mark key points you that you are pointing out. (Literally, a few students did not give me the resumes until half way or when we are done talking… does not make sense, to me at least)
  7. Format your resume for easy glancing or browsing — Especially for career fair, the recruiter is to find key information in very limited time. Format key information so they are easy to spot at a glance, like graduation date, GPA, companies and job description of your previous work, important skills for the job you want, etc. Ask friends, teachers, strangers and see if they can find those information in 2-3 minutes. That will most likely make them happy.
  8. Resumes’s “One-page-ness” — This is targeted to undergraduate. Unless you have many very very important and relevant information that you MUST present, keep it to one page.

Note: Let alone the hard-to-browse resumes. I am very surprised to see many poorly done resumes yet these days. By that I mean, some of them are so obvious that the person did not even try.

Even though this may not be what all recruiters look for or how they feel, I believe these should be some good starting point, and the first 5 tips are generically useful for your interaction with other people in daily life. That’s all I have for now. Hope you find it useful.

Originally posted 2009-02-27 02:07:53. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Liberation Not Reached through Hostility

The idea of liberation is quite muggy. And I find people do not behave in ways that will allow them to be liberated even when they say they want liberation. Perhaps because of the mugginess.

Here’s as liberation as I understand it.
To be liberated is to be free from something. To be free from something means that it is okay to walk away from it. And more importantly, it also means that it is okay if you cannot walk away from it. Thus, to be liberated means you had gotten passed, you had outgrown something, or an idea.

I said at the beginning that people do not behave in ways that will allow them to be liberated because currently when most people seek any form of liberation (material, spiritual, or ideal, whatever), they seek it with an attitude of aggression and hostility. Some form of opposition and conflicts are okay and necessary but how could they ever be liberated when they feel so extremely that they cannot be at peace unless they had completely obliterated that something.

If you cannot be at peace until you had completely destroyed or removed something from your life, it cannot be said that you are liberated. The situation is precisely opposite because it really means you still care so much. Ironic, isn’t it?

Now if we look at the manners and attitudes of people around the world who are trying to solve all sorts of human issues, so many of them approach the solution with exactly an extreme kind of aggression and hostility. It becomes no surprise that nothing seems to gets solved, right? As opposite, we seem to have more and more problems to ourselves.

Instead of liberation, we find ourselves entrapment.

True liberation comes from maturity, perception, and wisdom. We humans are teenagers who still have a lot of maturing to do. That is, seeing that human civilization began 5000 years ago while earth is more than 4.5 billion years old, I’d say that’s a fair statement.

Of course, without scientific proof. And without scientific proof coming from some form of some experts, nobody listens, cares, trusts, or gives a shit.

And one more thing, next time you wonder if you are free (from something), try feeling how freely that you are able to walk away (from it)?

Originally posted 2010-09-06 22:52:49. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

My Personal Finance Decluttering – Bye Bye Student Loan

Following my recent mortgage refinance, I also bit my teeth and paid off the student loan debt that I carried since I graduated in 2006.

I had to “bite my teeth” because of the amount of savings I’m giving up to get rid of these debt, especially on top of the chunk of saving I put away in the refinance process. My rationale…

For the longest time, because the student loan is sitting at a low 3.5% rate, I considered it as cheap money and was going to pay it down slowly over the year.

However, even as I was paying it slowly monthly, I was putting in 20-30 bucks extra each payment to help dwindle the loan amount down faster. As a result, I saw the amount sitting around $3000.

There is a story about a philosophy teacher that talks about how we can see our life as a bottle with the important things as large stone pieces we put in it and the trivial stuff as small pieces of sand.

Because the loan is sitting at just $3000, and by principle, it’s “cheap money” and money is better in your own pocket… I decided that keeping this loan is like having more pieces of sand than necessary. For my peace of mind and not having to keep track of it anymore, I made the jump to pay it off.

As a result, my only real loan left is my mortgage (because I’m paying off my credit cards monthly). Perhaps I’m simply risk-averse or financially conservative, but in this day and age where employment is not quite guaranteed and work environment unstable, it is important to reduce debt to provide yourself the flexibility and option to consider other opportunities. In short, the less fixed cost in your cash flow, the better.

Plus, the less things the mind has to keep track of, the less chance of making mistakes that may cost money. Therefore, being thoughtful in minimizing debt and reduce debt cannot be stressed enough because of how easily costs can snowball!

At any rate, I can forget making that student loan payment each month now, and that gives me more space in the mind… which by itself, is priceless.

Originally posted 2013-01-04 23:42:09. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Wisdom Results Not in Process, It Results in Outcome

We humans tend to think of wisdom as a top-down procedure. A powerful mind gathers information, measures it against the lessons of accumulated experience, and makes a rational decision. But really, wisdom is not a process but an outcome; it’s the ability to live well, to anticipate and be prepared, to avoid disaster, to navigate troubles. It came through experience and pattern recognition or it can come through instinct and feedback loops, as it does with bees. Either way, it’s a process of trial and error, of learning from mistakes. One method emphasizes the individual’s role, while the other relies on genes and evolution. Our species tend to recognize only the former method, but nature seems to favor the latter.
Rowan Jacobsen

Originally posted 2011-04-26 16:48:56. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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